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March 21, 2020

The new moon is a blank page, a fresh start. It marks the beginning of a new lunar cycle, and is viewed as a rebirth, or a reset, with unlimited possibilities. This is the perfect time to sit and reflect on setting your intentions for what you’d like to manifest, work on, or create for the new cycle. This is the best time to write down your goals, plant seeds, tend to plants, and banish what no longer serves you, or what you n...

December 17, 2019

I believe everything happens for a reason. I believe we go through such dark moments in life only to better appreciate the light, once we find it. I believe we go through heartache and loss, but it is only to create space for new people to come into our lives. I believe you truly are exactly where you are supposed to be, even if you may not immediately understand why, eventually it all makes sense. 2019 was certainly a year fi...

October 22, 2019

I've always struggled to let go of the fact that I never truly had a normal mom, and she was never quite "a mother" by any definition. She suffered from mental illness and addiction problems. She was a narcissist, which made life difficult because things always had to be about her no matter what was going on in my life. When I got engaged to a wonderful man, I thought that would spark some joy in her and possibly bring us toge...

July 11, 2019

We learn so much during our mid to late twenties. We of course learn about ourselves, what our core values are, what we can accomplish, what we are hoping to achieve, and what we still need to work on in order to keep growing as a person. We also learn a lot about the people we surround ourselves with. The friends, family, co-workers, classmates - whoever they are and for whatever reasons - they are in our lives. We eventually...

July 9, 2019

I've jumped on the crystal train, and for very good reason. The more I've learned about their power and how to work with them, the more I notice what a big difference they can truly make. Now, you can't just get crystals (aka stones) and expect them to work like magic. You have to tend to your crystals. You have to cleanse them, charge them, and work with them to set your intentions and what you want to manifest from them. You...

April 9, 2019

1. Your thirties are looming.

Gone are the days when 30 seemed so far away. Once you move beyond 25, 30 gets closer and closer every day, and that scares the hell out of you. Especially once your friends begin celebrating their 30th birthdays, shit is starting to get real.

2. Time is FLYING by, faster than ever before.

It was as if one minute you were turning 21 and (finally) legally allowed to drink, and then the next, you were...

February 11, 2019

I’ve now known, and I mean genuinely knew in person, spoke with, or was friends with, four people who have committed suicide. Attending those funerals, seeing all of the people who truly loved and cared for that person… How could they leave all of these people behind? I thought to myself. Even though, deep down, I knew how. Because I’ve been on both ends of this. I know how you can contemplate it, I know ho...

February 7, 2019

I’ve always believed in ghosts or spirits, or some presence that visits us long after a person is gone. It can manifest in the way you get chills down your spine when you walk into a creepy house, a shadow you see moving in the distance, when you feel someone behind you or when you hear someone call your name… but no one is there.

When my Nana passed away recently, I started finding pennies everywhere, in the most random a...

October 17, 2018

I recently picked up the book, Llewellyn's Sabbat Essentials: Samhain, which is all about Samhain (pronounced sow-in), or what many call Halloween. Samhain is the final spoke in the Wheel of the Year according to many modern Pagans and Wiccans, and is viewed as a time when the veil between the land of the living and the land of the dead is at its thinnest. This book provides a history of Halloween, also known as Hallowe'en, Al...

September 25, 2018

Parents. Mom and dad. One of them (if not both) is supposed to be your go-to person, especially when you arrive at adulthood. In many people's lives, mom or dad eventually becomes your best friend, that one person you can lean on when the rest of your life seems to be falling apart. Or it's simply that person you can depend on, call at any hour of the night, and always know you have their support and love even if it's from mil...

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